Bernd
2021-03-07 16:51:22 ⋅ 3y
No. 111586
I around 10 years ago I used to dream about living in Japan. I made plans, informed myself, started to lean the language, etc.
Yes I know that's pretty cringe but that's not the point. The point is that I am farther away from that dream than ever before. It's not even my dream anymore but it still sucks thinking about it.
It was never possible and even going abroad on a vacation seems difficult in the future.
Not because of money or time but because I am such a loser in every sense.
Does Bernd still have any dreams or big plans for the future?
Bernd
2021-03-07 17:11:24 ⋅ 3y
No. 111588
I dream of building a big house with a nice beautiful garden around it.
I was born in a somewhat wealthy family, but compared to my father and grandpas who all have doctor degrees, I'm a fucking loser who will most likely never be able to afford it.
My gf is also poor so we either get our asses up to land some good job or we end up in the dirt.
Bernd
2021-03-07 17:31:02 ⋅ 3y
No. 111589
>>111588
>My gf
Bernd
2021-03-07 17:31:46 ⋅ 3y
No. 111590
>>111588
Relatable. When my father was my age he was already in the process of building his house.
Bernd
2021-03-07 19:07:47 ⋅ 3y
No. 111594
for me, dreams weren't had in the first place
Bernd
2021-03-07 19:25:29 ⋅ 3y
No. 111595
>>111594
Mostly this
But
I always wanted to visit Germany. I felt like it would be great seeing all the history and meeting people. But I'm now 27 and likely wouldn't have many chances to have much fun. I'm pretty much exactly like OP
t. miserable company lover
Bernd
2021-03-07 19:31:21 ⋅ 3y
No. 111596
speaking logically most people would be losers (nearly by definition, grass is greener etc theres always someone who is better than you lol)
Bernd
2021-03-07 19:40:02 ⋅ 3y
No. 111597
identifying as loser is bad tho (or a winner w/e)
don't dream big
don't set goals
don't take action
its literally all about Wu Wei that west doesn't have and they have to put ad-hoc like 'loser' concept
Bernd
2021-03-08 22:58:14 ⋅ 3y
No. 111669
>>111586
Better to set easily obtainable dreams, or semi long term goals.
I’ve set up what I want to do up until I hit 27.
From then on I don’t know what the fuck to do.
t. 25