Bernd
2021-03-08 10:07:15 ⋅ 3y
No. 111619
>New study finds not knowing how to flirt is the main reason behind “involuntary singlehood”
https://www.psychnewsdaily.com/new-study-finds-not-knowing-how-to-flirt-is-the-main-reason-behind-involuntary-singlehood/
I wish I knew how to flirt.
Bernd
2021-03-08 10:12:07 ⋅ 3y
No. 111620
learn hypnosis
Bernd
2021-03-08 11:10:24 ⋅ 3y
No. 111621
What matters more is WHERE to flirt.
Bernd
2021-03-08 11:51:41 ⋅ 3y
No. 111622
>>111621
True. 2020 I made resolutions to improve my life in all the ways where I don't like it. Improving social skills and getting gf was one part. But then this pandemic happened and all I can do is phone calls with the few existing friends I have and trying to go on tinder dates in the park.
Bernd
2021-03-08 11:54:06 ⋅ 3y
No. 111623
>>111619
>This factor was followed by not knowing how to perceive signals of interest, a lack of effort, and an overly high level of choosiness
>and an overly high level of choosiness
Yep, that’s me.
Bernd
2021-03-08 13:34:20 ⋅ 3y
No. 111626
Before I can start flirting I have to solve a few other problems.
1. being ugly
2. not being attractive
3. not meeting women I could flirt with
4. being too lazy to care about people
5. being boring
6. not being likeable in general
Bernd
2021-03-08 13:38:31 ⋅ 3y
No. 111627
>>111626
Your literally me
Bernd
2021-03-08 14:11:57 ⋅ 3y
No. 111628
whats between voluntary and involuntary
apathy?
Bernd
2021-03-08 14:16:26 ⋅ 3y
No. 111629
>>111628
voluntary is cope
Bernd
2021-03-08 14:34:34 ⋅ 3y
No. 111630
>>111629
3dpd is cope
Bernd
2021-03-08 14:38:17 ⋅ 3y
No. 111631
didn't read btw but im pretty sure the authors never heard of 'aromantic' or even 'asexual'
i also don't belive fedora science even if its true (because its irrelevant)
Bernd
2021-03-08 16:23:30 ⋅ 3y
No. 111633
Heads up, Bernd.
The only time in life when it is actually better to be a woman is when you are trying to find a partner.
We don't have pain every month, have to deal with less shitty random emotions on average, our bodies don't get deformed after the fun part of making children, we are less dull, we actually can have friendship between each other **most women dislike each other and will never experience real friendship**, nobody will ever approach us only because we have a pussy - I think this is a very sad experience many young women make.
We can easier land a good job, we have humor...
Bernd
2021-03-08 17:09:44 ⋅ 3y
No. 111635
>>111633
one cope after another
Bernd
2021-03-08 17:13:56 ⋅ 3y
No. 111636
>>111635
I am in a happy relationship.
Why do you assume that only incels can have opinions like this?
Bernd
2021-03-08 18:16:33 ⋅ 3y
No. 111637
>>111636
I didn't say anything of the sort tbh
"Coping" is not something that is associated with incels in particular
In reality, being a woman makes life many times safer, people will automatically like you more, etc. Women do have a sense of humor altough it's different, they do have real friendships, etcetc
Bernd
2021-03-08 18:21:31 ⋅ 3y
No. 111638
>>111637
>people will automatically like you more
Lmao.
Men who would like to fuck you are more likely to talk to, yes.
If this is something desirable, go ask god to be born as a girl in your next life.
Bernd
2021-03-08 19:08:42 ⋅ 3y
No. 111640
>>111638
important sage
Bernd
2021-03-08 19:20:37 ⋅ 3y
No. 111641
>>111633
>Heads up, Bernd.
Ok, I'm listening...
>The only time in life when it is actually better to be a woman is when you are trying to find a partner.
Which is super-important. And I doubt it's the only thing that's better.
>We don't have pain every month
My balls hurt every day.
>have to deal with less shitty random emotions on average
Those are tools to manipulate men.
>our bodies don't get deformed after the fun part of making children
Fair point.
>we are less dull
Not sure.
>we actually can have friendship between each other most women dislike each other and will never experience real friendship
Oh really? What keeps women from having friends?
> nobody will ever approach us only because we have a pussy - I think this is a very sad experience many young women make.
Yeah, so sad to be approached, much better to have to fight for every bit of attention and affection.
>We can easier land a good job
Wasn't easy for me to get a tolerable job but i guess people like me don't count in your world, huh?
>we have humor...
Oh, it was all a joke, sorry pal, I actually took your crap seriously for a minute...
Bernd
2021-03-08 20:36:50 ⋅ 3y
No. 111642
>>111641
I'm talking about average men, not loser NEETs.
If you compare a loser man with an average woman, of course she will have an easier life.
>Yeah, so sad to be approached, much better to have to fight for every bit of attention and affection.
Would you be truly happy if people only talked to you because they know that you have money?
You fail to understand how terrible it is to be surrounded by people who all act nice but you never know who of them genuinely likes you and who of them just likes your body.
Bernds look at females from the position of a rejected man. He sees them as powerful, not realising that the weak women suffer as well.
Gender really doesn't matter here, life is always harder if you are more of a 4/10.
Bernd
2021-03-08 21:27:19 ⋅ 3y
No. 111644
Women are dumb as rocks, it might seem insane, but if you see one glancing at you about any excuse will do if you want to start a conversation.
>>111644
>just talk to ppl bro
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Bernd
2021-03-08 22:14:34 ⋅ 3y
No. 111648
>>111644
kys schizo
Bernd
2021-03-08 22:55:55 ⋅ 3y
No. 111667
I’ll be honest, I had a “gf” once.
Don’t recommend it.
For every nice feel you get you get three bad feels to compensate.
I’m much happier wageslaving, coming home each day, pouring me some vodka at 5:00 pm sharp and sitting in my bathtub either reading manga or some bullshit until I want to go to bed or eat.
Simplicity > complexity
Bernd
2021-03-09 06:54:12 ⋅ 3y
No. 111680
Whenever I flirt with a wewmam, I'm either dealing with a taken woman who's a great match for a fling or a dope who's incapable of flirting beyond one rebound joke.
I need good flirts but most are worse than dealing with herpes.
Bernd
2021-03-09 07:54:59 ⋅ 3y
No. 111682
>>111619
Took me a long time to tell the difference between when people were flirting with me or when they were just trying to be friendly.
Bernd
2021-03-11 20:06:13 ⋅ 3y
No. 111790
That’s hilarious
Bernd
2021-03-12 11:54:53 ⋅ 3y
No. 111825
I have created a bumble profile and there are some cute grilles talking to me.
Bernd
2021-03-12 14:39:42 ⋅ 3y
No. 111834
>>111825
lol it's not going to work
Bernd
2021-03-12 14:43:20 ⋅ 3y
No. 111835
>>111834
Don't be mean. Let him try
Bernd
2021-03-12 14:47:23 ⋅ 3y
No. 111836
>>111835
Women like to waste time. It's probably simpler to approach women in the streets. It probably works if you are sculpted like a greek god or hypermasculine gay pornstar like fom Gachi.
Bernd
2021-03-12 15:24:10 ⋅ 3y
No. 111838
>>111836
>Women like to waste time
so true