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Bernd 2021-03-05 10:43:36 ⋅ 3d No. 111387

Is there a way of getting a gf less triggered all the time? It is exhausting, I say one wrong word and she is mad. I could just apologise 20 times and everything will be okay but I did that often enough so fuck this, I just ignore her and work on my plenty projects whenever she decides to be triggered. But I'm also tired of just ignoring her whenever this happens. I mean, I do enjoy my time alone but then when she decides to stop being mad the next moment she will cry that I don't need her. This is so retarded, what to do with this?

Bernd 2021-03-07 04:56:49 ⋅ 1d No. 111568

Today she watched BDSM toys in some online store and got super horny, texted me about it to masturbate together. These days I am unironically camping in my parents basement far away from home because I've got home office and the food here is free. The problem is that my parents were talking loudly next door and could enter my room any second (they like doing that) and I also don't have a key, so I really couldn't get in mood to fap. When I said that I can't right now she started to cry because I "rejected" her. It was the first time since at least a month that she asked me directly to do something. She is really afraid of getting a "No" from me and this makes my life hard. Apparently she is a very emotional person and can't help but taking a "No" from the person she loves personally. It is not like I ever want to reject her, but I would like her to ask me if she wants something instead of being quiet because I might say no.

Bernd 2021-03-07 09:39:01 ⋅ 1d No. 111571

>>111568 she needs training on how to manage her borderline bersonality

Bernd 2021-03-07 15:08:08 ⋅ 21h No. 111580

>>111568 Couldnt you just explain your situation?

Bernd 2021-03-07 15:23:18 ⋅ 21h No. 111581

>>111580 I obviously tried.

Bernd 2021-02-28 20:10:18 ⋅ 1w No. 111050

Another dating thread by me :) Krautchan: Rat fur unzols. That aside, I didn't think i'd get this far. I wonder what I should say to initiate the secks...? >nice lol >went to the outside bazaar yesterday, bought a teapot >wanna see it? >fucking cute right? >I'll come drink tea:) >I'm proud of your good style mister :) >hehe thanks I know I'll mess this up, can't believe this happens. I am afraid i'll be too bold if I ask her to come.

Bernd 2021-03-01 23:12:20 ⋅ 6d No. 111196

>>111132 Do you think you are treated as a thing if you ask a girl at the Kirmes if she wants to go out with you and she has to make a decision to say yes or no?

Bernd 2021-03-01 23:19:46 ⋅ 6d No. 111197

>>111196 No.

Bernd 2021-03-02 19:05:18 ⋅ 5d No. 111254

>>111197 Do you have autism?

Bernd 2021-03-02 19:40:39 ⋅ 5d No. 111255

>>111254 Yes. Also I'm trans if that matters.

Bernd 2021-02-25 23:12:22 ⋅ 1w No. 110859

I am sorry for another dating thread. There are a lot of boards on literature, film, anti-capitalism and yet I only kohlpost. I promise I will start to post more actual discussion threads from now on. Just now I was watching this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qLNwa_hoz4w ...when I wondered if I should pay for Bumble access to exclusive features, since the women are better educated. Maybe I should be aggressive and try to cold-approach women more outside but outside of slim sexual experience and some flirting I've never been in a real relationship with a girl. I want a girl to tell me I'm smart and listen to me talk and I want to make a person feel good and feel good myself, however I don't want to sacrifice my personality and freedom. Bernds, should I pay for Bumble or should I buy more groceries/fun things?

Bernd 2021-02-26 00:07:33 ⋅ 1w No. 110864

>>110862 Everyone is in full paranoia mode over here. They'll keep our balls chastised until they tell us to coom in artificial breeding apparatuses for more labour slaves.

Bernd 2021-02-26 00:26:21 ⋅ 1w No. 110866

I wonder why women are surprised by men's polysexuality and lack of interest in maintaining relationships after it ages, when women are wholly absent during men's formative years? A man experiences the gamut of dread and comes out of it stronger, gets a degree, works on his psyche and his body and after all that the woman shoves herself in expecting him to simply rain affection on her like a loyal dog. It's strange how that works, with men progressing and women declining over time. Maybe if women want unequivocal loyalty and not for their husbands to fuck young bitches they should be present when men are young. Surely if I met a girl now who loved me for who I was I would take good care of her when we were older and she was less attractive, but she isn't here and when I go outside for trips I see ugly older women with short hair and no children. Sad!

Bernd 2021-02-26 00:53:46 ⋅ 1w No. 110870

Until what age do you count a girl as young? >with men progressing and women declining You compare the man's psyche with the woman's body here, it is an unfair comparison. Men also start to look worse once they turn 30+, and just as smart men - smart women will also collect more wisdom and develop a more mature character as time passes. >they should be present when men are young They want safety, and being in a serious young relationship myself, I understand these people better than ever before. We're both poor, my parents are wealthy but will inherit me almost nothing to "make me strong" because they also started from zero. Her parents are dead. You really have to trust each other because if you commit on each other seriously early in life, future plans shatter away once one of you fucks up, but getting your partner out of bad times is part of the game I guess. So yeah I understand why people (men as women) like to wait until they are 30+ with a stable job and education, not doing this is like buying a pig in a poke. Yet I chose the risky and fun path. Totally agreeing to: >Surely if I met a girl now who loved me for who I was I would take good care of her when we were older and she was less attractive All I've been told is: "don't like, don't cheat. everything else is fine." **Pic related is what she drew an hour ago, she is trying to learn to draw, rate :3**

Bernd 2021-02-26 01:00:16 ⋅ 1w No. 110871

>>110866 >when I go outside for trips I see ugly older women with short hair and no children feels european man While foreign women do make up in front of the mirror, german women peek out of the window, watching carefully that nobody is parking their cars in forbidden spots.

Bernd 2021-01-15 08:21:28 ⋅ 1mn No. 107295

Why fucking idiot Russian girl match with me? Green card, moshikashite? Zettai ni ya.

Bernd 2021-01-16 16:14:03 ⋅ 1mn No. 107405

>>107340 Shut up incel.

Bernd 2021-01-16 16:24:30 ⋅ 1mn No. 107406

>>107404 There are no good ones

Bernd 2021-01-16 16:32:49 ⋅ 1mn No. 107407

>>107404 Can we move everything dating apps related to another board please, even if it is a good thread? In the worst case Bernd will lurk two boards instead of one. It's just like there should be a place for threads not really fitting into /int thematic. Many Bernds are annoyed by mentioning dating apps and everything related to that, but some Bernds would want to discuss how they have failed relationships and have emotional support.

Bernd 2021-01-16 18:10:52 ⋅ 1mn No. 107427

>>107407 Strictly dating apps or dating in general? upd: I see well lets do it -> /kb/.