Bernd
2022-07-25 19:42:45 ⋅ 2y
No. 202449
I had a one night stand at the weekend. I didn't like her, and had decided that pretty much right away but near the end of the night I thought I'd kiss her because why not, then she got hot and horny so we went back to her place and I ate her out because I didn't have a condom.
She seemed ashamed afterwards so I promised I'd be a gentleman. "I'll just have to let her down nicely" I thought to myself as we talked about follow-up dates. I didn't get her number but she had mine, so I waited over the weekend feeling guilty but also glad I maybe wasn't getting into another relationship with a woman I don't like.
Then I decided to message her on the app assuming she was just too shy. She replied a few moments ago to dump me instead. I'm glad but part of me is also hurt.
Bernd
2022-07-26 08:48:03 ⋅ 2y
No. 203155
this describes 80% of tinder dates
you should learn to filter those out sooner
Bernd
2022-07-26 08:49:03 ⋅ 2y
No. 203156
rule of thumb for social networks and online dating:
whomever you are paying attention to is more popular than you are
so no need to feel guilt over not dating her again lol she has other options.
Bernd
2022-07-26 12:24:01 ⋅ 2y
No. 203168
>>202449
Why did you not have a condom if you were planning a hookup?
Bernd
2022-08-20 14:27:59 ⋅ 2y
No. 219146
>>203168
I wasn't. It's unrelated but I also dislike wearing them, the last time I had to use one I couldn't feel anything and ended up hurting the girl. I looked into this and it might be because I was using a regular that could be too small or maybe it was the brand. Either way more inquiry is needed into condoms that actually feel good as I don't understand how people who have regular casual sex can possible enjoy the sensation compared to bareback.
Plus I dated a doctor once who said that carrying a condom around in your wallet is stupid because it's not designed for the heat and general wear and tear. She had a creampie fetish though and took me without so maybe she just wanted me to spaff in her which I duly obliged.